Everyone experiences crisis at some points during life. A crisis may be personal, such as a death or the loss of a relationship, or community-wide, such as a fire on campus. Examples of crisis or trauma situations include deaths, natural disasters, violent crime, sexual assault and abuse, the aftermath of suicide, accidents, threats to public health, or campus or domestic violence. People may also experience trauma indirectly. For example, bystanders, friends or roommates of victims, or public safety personnel who work with disaster or trauma victims may be affected.
Each person responds to crisis or disaster differently. It is important though, to understand the potential reactions that accompany crisis and to know how to care for yourself during times of extreme stress.
Typical Responses to Disaster
Anger or Irritability
Feelings of Hopelessness
Changes in Activity Level
Social Withdrawal or Isolation
Eating or Appetite Changes
Increased Use of Alcohol/Drugs
Inability to Relax
Difficulty Making Decisions
Dreams/Nightmares of Event
“Flashbacks” of Crisis Event
Confusion or Self-doubt
Fatigue/Loss of Energy
Rapid Heart Beat
Sweating or Chills
Exaggerated Startle Response
Tips for Coping and Self-care
• Reach out and make contact with others.
• Talk with friends and loved ones.
• Recognize and accept your feelings as “normal” responses to extreme circumstances.
• Express your feelings appropriately; consider keeping a journal to help in the process.
• Structure your time.
• Maintain your usual schedule as much as you can.
• Get extra rest and set aside time to relax .
• Eat regular balanced meals even if you don’t feel hungry.
• Exercise or participate in some regular physical activity.
• Don’t make major decisions or changes in your life.
• Avoid excessive use of alcohol or drugs.
• Consider contacting the Talley Center for Counseling Services or a mental health professional if symptoms persist.
How to Support a Friend In Crisis
• Reach out and spend time with the person in crisis.
• Make time to talk , encourage the person to express his/her feelings, and listen.
• Respect the person’s need to spend time alone, too.
• Help with everyday tasks, where possible – run errands, share a meal, pick up mail, care for a pet, etc.
• Don’t try to offer false cheer or “fix things.” Listening non-judgmentally to another is a powerful form of support, in itself.
• Help the person connect with supportive resources on campus and in the community.
• Encourage the person to contact the Talley Center for Counseling Services for help, when appropriate.
• Take care of yourself, too; know your own limits.
Campus and Community Resources
- The Talley Center for Counseling Services (540)654-1053/TTY 654-1949
- American Red Cross – Fredericksburg Chapter
Disaster Response Services
- Rappahannock Council Against Sexual Assault (RCASA)
24 hour Crisis Intervention
- Empower House
Education and Advocacy